Being cause in the matter

Any authentic conversation for transformation being cause in the matter is at the forefront and center stage. In the matter of living a transformed life, it’s more than simply we’re in charge of our own life. We already know that. It’s we’re cause in the matter of our own life.

Taking on being cause in the matter isn’t conventional. It requires taking a huge step, an unreasonable step, a radical step, an unconventional step. It is a place from which to deal with life that we have chosen for ourselves. It simply says, “we can count on us (and, us can count on us) to look at and deal with life from the perspective of my being cause in the matter.

In taking this stand, we give up the right to assign cause to the circumstances, or to others, or to the waxing and waning of our state of mind – all of which leave us helpless and at the effect of. At the same time, taking a stand does not prevent us from holding others responsible. We assert it’s our life, and we caused it. It leaves us with power in dealing with any situation.